Weeks 3-4 in Nepal – The Terai & “See you again”!
A small, lanky chicken scurried past my ankles as yet another droplet of sweat slipped past the edge of my eyebrow and fell into the silty dust beneath my feet. I glanced up and to my left as our host and educator for the day, Ranjana Lamsal, spoke with Parvati Mahato, the woman we had traveled by van over long, bumpy roads to visit. Parvati nodded and replied softly to Ranjana, gently bouncing her young, sleeping daughter in her arms as she spoke. I watched her multitask effortlessly–soothing her daughter as she recounted the story of her family’s dealings with a migration agent who ran away with over half of her family’s savings and forced her husband, Om, to start his foreign employment process from scratch for the second time in the span of a few months. Clearly, performing multiple forms of emotional labor at once was not a novelty for her.
When we arrived at her house, Parvati and her mother–a beautiful, wise-looking older woman with long silver hair and an analytical gaze–dragged as many plastic lawn chairs as they could find out of their house, along with one of the children’s beds, just so that we would have a place to sit for our meeting. I shifted uncomfortably on the bed’s hard, hand-carved wooden frame and taut nylon webbing, temporarily distracted by my mental image of how difficult it would be to sleep on the webbing’s rough knots every night.
The experience of visiting Parvati and hearing her story first-hand, sitting on one of her children’s beds in her yard in rural Nepal, is one that will stay with me for the rest of my life. While we were on our excursion to the Terai, a rural region in southern Nepal, my peers and I were able to visit the homes or neighborhoods of four individuals who had opened cases with the local government’s Migration Resource Center (MRC) to try to achieve justice for exploitation that themselves or their family members had faced/were facing as migrant laborers in Gulf Cooperation Council member-countries. The importance of sharing such personal settings with the individuals and families that we were lucky enough to listen to cannot be undermined–being physically present the places where they carried out their daily routines contextualized their stories and made the experience of learning from our speakers hyper-real for me.
Interacting with each individual we visited–all of them survivors of structural violence at the hands of the Nepali state, the government’s of GCC member-countries, and all the rich politicians in between–through normal conversations was also extremely effective for informing us about the day-to-day realities and consequences of undergoing struggles related to foreign employment within the Nepali/Eurasian/international system. It was because of the personal nature of those conversations that I began to understand what it looks and would feel like day-to-day for a single mom to raise her children without her husband, while he faces inhumane working conditions in Dubai, Qatar, etc. I was able to visualize the daily morning routine: preparing food, waking the children, getting them ready for school and/or work, feeding the animals, cleaning up the house, trying to get in touch with the relative abroad to check on them and receive information about how to advocate for them from thousands of miles away, and then making more phone calls or a long visit to the RMC to pass along information from the relative to case workers. If we hadn’t been sitting there in Parvati’s yard though, face-to-face with both the joy and struggles of her life, I don’t think I would have gained the same understanding.
Another thing that became abundantly clear to us through our site visits in the Kawasoti province of the Terai and beyond was the imperativeness of the Safer Migration (SaMi) program and the presence of the MRC in each district of Nepal. At one point during our site visits, Ranjana looked at each of us and said, “Now you see how important it is that we are here. If SaMi wasn’t here, who would advocate for justice for these families? It wouldn’t happen.” That concept stayed with me for the entire rest of the day and throughout the next as well, when we went to visit the local government office of Kawasoti. Our presentation experiences in the government buildings we visited in Terai were also highly informative, but they felt much staler than our interactions with the individuals and families that Ranjana introduced us to during our site visits.
Prior to those interactions, when we were listening to representatives of the MRC speak, I was more passively interested in what the speakers were talking about. The presentation took on a completely different meaning, however, when MRC clients began climbing the stairs and poking their heads into the room where we sat, asking for directions to one office or another to handle cases, inquire about services, look over documents, etc. The faces that appeared in the doorway were the reason that we were there- they were the manifestations of the knowledge and data being served to us on projected powerpoint slides, and it was only after I allowed myself to realize the weight of that connection that I became fully invested in what was going on around me.
Similarly, I don’t think I would have gotten nearly as much out of our visit to the Kawasoti municipality’s local government office had I not met Ranjana’s clients at their homes the day before. Honestly, the Kawasoti judicial committee presentation brought up a lot of anger and frustration for me, and I think I was feeling that way because I had fresh conversations with local people spinning around inside my head and providing personal, anecdotal context to the information we were being fed about Nepali policy and government structure. The Deputy Mayor explained the limitations of the power of local governments as that applies to bringing justice to labor migrants whose perpetrators flee to different provinces or countries, about her stance on divorce and the state’s involvement in domestic affairs, about the complexities of the civil vs. criminal case divide in terms of how the state can allocate resources to survivors, etc.
As she spoke, all I could think about was Parvati’s face as she held her daughter–the shadows under her eyes and the determination in the way she clenched her jaw. I thought of the young boy whose father committed suicide after returning from working abroad–I remembered the boy’s quiet resilience, how his life and mind have forever been altered by the struggles he inherited from his father during his early teenage years. How could the Deputy Mayor have such an honest, comprehensive understanding of the issues faced by this extremely vulnerable population in her community and seem to relay this information to us as if it was the most normal thing in the world? In the moment, I knew my anger was directed at the wrong person, the wrong place, but I couldn’t help but want to stand up and shout, “Yes! And do you have any idea how these policies are inflicting violence upon the people your government claims to represent and care for?”.
Once I had calmed down enough to think critically again, I eventually accepted that the Deputy Mayor must care deeply for her community to do the work she does, and that she and her colleagues are helping migrant workers in whatever ways they reasonably can–it’s the dynamics of the Nepali state that do not allow local governments to take much direct action, not individual negligence. I thought to myself, of course the Deputy Mayor and her colleagues can feel the pain of their community, and perhaps the frankness of her communication may just be an indicator of how long she has had to grapple with this kind of knowledge and how she has learned to cope with it.
It’s still frustrating that Nepali’s local governments are not able to do more to help prevent further harm in the future, but it’s thanks to women and workers like Ranjana that labor migrants at all stages can have some hope for justice and safety while abroad. Balancing the need for further progress with the ability to have gratitude for the social resources that already exist in rural Nepal is a tricky line to walk, and it’s a line I found myself walking every day in the Terai. My gratitude for being there and having the opportunity to learn from so many people with such different life stories is clear and undeniable, though–this experience has changed my worldview profoundly, and it is one that I’ll never forget.
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As I stepped through the dark wooden doorway, I wasn’t sure what to expect–Kat and I had been anxiously awaiting seeing this room of our homestay house for weeks, as it was one of the only rooms we hadn’t yet explored and we knew that it housed beautiful artwork. Nothing could have prepared me for the depth, detail, intricacy, and delicate beauty of the statues that arched and sat and danced and stomped before me, though. They looked so real, so divinely powerful, as if they might unfreeze and wield their mightiness upon us at any given second. Kat and I were mesmerized, so much so that we momentarily forgot that the quiet, humble man with endearing crow’s feet who padded quietly into the room behind us had created these figures with a few simple tools and deft skill of his calloused hands.
These were the kinds of moments that Kat and I found ourselves reflecting upon days later as we sat on yet another bougie Qatar Airways flight, sad to be leaving Nepal and excited for what lay ahead of us in Jordan. Before boarding, Yanik and his team had organized a lovely, tear-jerking final dinner with our homestay families. We all met at a cute cafe’s outdoor garden, and we exchanged gratitude and memories and more than a few glasses of wine underneath the twinkling party lights that were strung above us. Our host dad, Krishna, had a way of making Kat and I laugh that was totally unique–somehow, dad jokes are dad jokes anywhere in the world, and he definitely capitalized on his final opportunity to share them with us.
In our conversations about all that we had learned during our brief time in Nepal, I found myself thinking about how in a past life, I could have been like any of these wonderful people that I had met halfway around the world, and they could easily have been like me. It was a unifying thought–the comfort that we all share our humanity and the capacity to empathize with one another across our differences is profound.
I also found myself remembering our 22-hour bus ride back from Pokhara, a mountainous city full of beautiful cafes where gangsters launder their money and where ferryman spend their days paddling people across the city’s yawning lake.
My cohort ended up spending one more day than originally planned in Pokhara due to the devastating flooding that recently tore through the floodplains of Nepal and tore up the country’s roads, causing landslides and traffic and slowing down the provision of essential disaster-relief resources to affected areas. The flooding was severe–Nepal received half of it’s annual rainfall in two days, and despite the fact that government officials had been warned ahead of time of the impending storm, preventative measures were not taken to protect the lives and livelihoods of the populations most at risk. In recent years, working class communities (often comprised of daily-wage workers) have settled in haphazardly developed housing on the banks of the Bagmati River and its floodplains. This is the only place that many of these families can afford to live, and they suffered and lost the most at the hands of the recent flooding.
My cohort and I were extremely lucky, as were our host families in Patan, to have our lives and homes left intact in the wake of the floods. My peers and I did suffer, however, when we were confined inside our tourist bus for 22 hours on the trip back from Pokhara due to landslides, Indian drivers in massive, colorful trucks (colloquially known as “tippers”) asleep at the wheel with their engines cut off in the middle of the road, and a mass exodus of people trying to reach family members in need or on a journey to find refuge on higher ground. The journey was brutal- the day before, we had geared up for an eight-hour bus ride, but nothing could have prepared us for the claustrophobia, desperate humor, waves of helplessness, and ultimately, the strong group solidarity that we encountered while we were trapped on that bus.
Once again, Krishna set the absolute highest standard for the seriousness with which he took our collective safety and wellbeing as a member of our student support staff, but also as a true friend of us all. During many occasions in the wee hours of the morning, when we were stuck at absolute standstills due to the tipper drivers decisions to take naps in the middle of the road, Krishna got out of the bus and banged on the sides of the trucks to wake the drivers so that we could move forward. He would then lead us ON FOOT through a maze of moving/non-moving vehicles with haphazard headlights pointing this way and that until we had made it clear to the other side of the blockade. This process definitely put him in harms way, as many of the drivers were barely awake, but Krishna showed no fear- he was like Moses, parting the tipper-sea for us. When he was back on the bus, he made sure to check in with everyone and provided us with water to keep us hydrated, dark humor to keep us smiling and grounded, and hugs when we started to go a little cray. He is such an awesome human being, and many tears were shed when we were forced to say “see you again”. I can’t wait for my post-undergrad return to Kathmandu to reunite with him and my host family, and to send the Annapurna circuit as a team with him and Ellie and Sarah!
There were so many epic, bonding moments, so many life-changing conversations had between me and Krishna and Nirvana and Laboni and Yanik and my peers and our guest-lecturers and our host families, so many beautiful sunrises and evening walks back home from our beloved classroom space- It would take years to recount all that has happened in the last month to the degree that these experiences deserve, but alas, time marches on and so do I! As I sit here writing this from our hotel in Jordan, I must now begin to chronicle the incredibly different, equally fascinating and growth-inducing experience we have already begun to have here. In Nepal, they do not say goodbye- only see you again! Now we have said Salaam Alaikum to Jordan… more on this soon.
October 8, 2024 Leave a comment
Week 2 in Nepal – Sickness, the IOM, and Circus Kathmandu!
The first thing I noticed about the gym were the waxy, weathered floorboards… countless feet had run, jumped, spun, and danced here before mine. With each step, a subtle creak reminded us of the age of the space, the afternoons spent here that belong to strangers we would never know. The second thing I noticed was the heat- it hung like a shawl above us, reminding me that I need to stop expecting to be blasted by crisp AC wherever I go. We were ushered into the space by BJ L, the founder of Circus Kathmandu, and by two of it’s talented performers, Sheetal and Saraswati. My peers and I all found seats on benches that had been dragged into a semi-circle towards one side of the gym. and we eagerly awaited an introduction from our hosts.
BJ L welcomed us and quietly began to tell us his story. I had to lean in with my elbows on my knees to catch each of his softspoken words. He explained that he had grown up in a poor, rural community in Nepal in a family with multiple children. One day, when BJ L was eight, a man from India came to his village, singled out his parents, and promised them that if they sent BJ L with him, he would be able to provide English education, quality housing, and ample nutrition for their son- things that his parents were struggling to provide due to their economic circumstances. English education especially is an expensive and valuable commodity that is very hard to come by in poor communities. His parents agreed, and BJ L went with him and a few other children to India. Unfortunately, the reality that awaited them was a far cry from what had been promised. The man sold BJ L and the others to an Indian circus, and for four years that is all that BJ L knew. He became friends with a few of the other children that had been trafficked, and together they found the strength to endure the inhumane conditions they faced every day. Eventually, BJ L and the others were rescued by a humanitarian organization and he was returned home to his family. By then, he was a stranger to them- his parents did not recognize him at first, nor did he recognize them.
BJ L’s story is reflective of all of the stories of the staff and performers of Circus Kathmandu. Sheetal and Saraswati had also both survived human trafficking, and they listened quietly and looked at the floor while BJ L spoke. BJ L founded Circus Kathmandu in 2010 for the sake of showcasing beautiful human talent and dignity as well as to raise awareness and create social change around the issues of human trafficking and women’s health and equality in Nepal and around the world. Circus Kathmandu works with many local and international NGOs as advocates and workshop leaders,
BJ L then said, “But we are not here today just to focus on sad things. We may have sad stories, but today we are here to teach you and have fun.” And with that, music began playing and everyone rose and formed a circle. We each took turns running into the center of the circle and trying our best to choreograph a dance for everyone else to follow- it was HILARIOUS. The shift from sorrow to joy was so profound, so palpable- and it was all thanks to community, music, and dancing. We went on to play lots of other goofy games with BJ L and his team before they finally split us into groups to try to give us some circus skills. We were given crash courses on how to do circus tricks with hula hoops, how to juggle, and how to do some basic tricks on aerial silks- by far my favorite of the three activities. There is something about being suspended in mid-air with pointed toes and outstretched arms that makes you feel like you are flying! Our instructor Sheetal, who is a professional aerial artist, was very patient and gracious with us as we tried to replicate her strength and fluidity on the silks.
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Unfortunately, another rousing event that took place this past week was a terrible bout of food poisoning for me. As I laid in bed after dinner on Sunday night, I got that gross, impending-doom feeling that something was very much wrong with my stomach. By the time that 5 am rolled around, I had puked eight times and probably slept an hour total. Luckily, our program coordinators Krishna, Laboni, and Nirvana were at the ready Monday morning to help get myself and a few other students to the clinic- over the course of the week, many of my peers started dropping like flies with various ailments, so the clinic trips became routine for our team.
The best part about being sick was the motorcycle ride. Technically, riding on motorcycles is a “forbidden activity” for SIT students… but dire times call for drastic measures (mwa ha ha!). After puking one more time for good measure, Krishna picked me up and plopped me down on the bike behind him. He lowered the rider foot pedals and instructed me NOT TO TAKE MY FEET OFF OF THEM. He was about to take off when, at the last moment, he stopped the bike and started rummaging through his bag. “Here,” he said. “Can’t forget this!” He winked and handed me a blue baseball cap. I immediately started laughing. “Is this my helmet?” I asked. He said, “Yup!” And with that we took off, tearing through the ancient streets of Patan. Other bikes, brightly-clothed pedestrians, moving carts piled high with irregular pieces of lumber or bright green vegetables blurred past as as Krishna expertly maneuvered through the dynamic chaos of the Patan alleys. The wind felt SO good on my face… I grinned wildly in the rearview mirror which made Krishna laugh. He shouted over the wind, “I’m going to have to convince Yanik that this wasn’t your master plan all along!”
When we pulled into the clinic, reality resumed too soon. The ride had made me dizzy, and the heat was oppressive. Luckily, Nirvana greeted us there with water and led us into the vast, air-conditioned lobby. The hospital was luxurious, and Nirvana warned us that while the doctors first priority was to help us get better, they were also motivated to make as much money off us as they could while doing so. “You do not have to stay the night if you don’t want to. Don’t let them make you think that you are on death’s door just so that you end up here for a few more hours!” For me, it wasn’t fear mongering that made me want to stay… it was the ridiculously comfortable beds and the cool, quiet room they took me to. After giving blood and taking some anti-nausea meds, I slipped into a merciful, heavenly sleep in my quiet corner. When the doctors awoke me and said that I would not need to be rehydrated with IV’s, I was at once relieved and disappointed. It was time to leave this strange paradise and go home. Nirvana called me a cab and I bumped and jostled my way back to my homestay, where my host dad and sister were waiting to help me get situated in my room. They were so, so kind to me, as they always are, and they made sure I had water and crackers and as much air circulation as possible in our small room. When I returned to school the next day, I credited the motorcycle ride as what had cured me.
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I have much, much work to catch up on after the few days that it took for me to regain my full energy and brainpower, so I will write about just one more place that our whole student group visited this week. Two days after my bout of sickness, my peers and I all piled into a van and went to visit the International Office of Migration in Nepal- a special branch of the U.N. that has an office in almost every country all over the world. The IOM is an INGO that “promotes humane and orderly migration for the benefit of all… by providing services and advice to migrants and governments.” Before we arrived, I had assumed that the IOM would focus on serving both migrants and refugees in terms of labor migration, resettlement, and with the intake and care of both vulnerable populations. But when we began listening to our speaker’s presentations, we were informed that IOM Nepal focuses solely on the process of moving people through Nepal, and on providing for the needs of migrants during that specific, transient period. Apparently refugees and asylum seekers are the responsibility of the UNHCR (United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees) in Nepal.
The first two floors of the IOM building smell like rubbing alcohol and look exactly like a hospital- performing health screenings and treating the medical conditions of migrants leaving Nepal are some of the IOM’s biggest priorities. The IOM works with nations in Europe, the U.S, Australia, New Zealand, and a few others to coordinate resettlement plans for documented Bhutanese, Middle-Eastern, Nepalese, etc. migrants that are in search of better lives. The key word here is documented- the status of being documented/undocumented makes all the difference in the kinds of resources that the IOM provides to migrants in Nepal. Documented migrants are given places to stay, basic healthcare, access to food pantries, and designated staff to help them plan their journeys and destinations. Undocumented migrants, however, are not legally eligible for IOM assistance, which creates a host of human rights issues for them. Based on our conversation, it was unclear as to whether the IOM or the UNHCR are able to provide any kind of direct aid to undocumented migrants, or whether this responsibility falls squarely on the shoulders of NGOs in Nepal. Either way, it seems problematic that such a large and vulnerable population of people in Nepal face such a dearth of resources and access to social services simply due to the status of their papers.
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This coming week, I will be traveling to the Terai region of Nepal! Specifically, our cohort will be going to Chitwan, a rural province of Nepal where rhinos roam and where tourism and development have created many environmental, social, cultural, and economic struggles and complexities. We will be speaking with two local NGOs in the community, one that serves and advocates for female survivors of domestic violence in the surrounding community (the problems created by the patriarchy and by gender-based-violence and power exist all over the world), and one that serves and advocates for foreign labor migrants and their families, who depend on the remittances that they send home. It will be such an honor and a privilege to see another side of life here in Nepal, and to have the opportunity to connect with members of a community that is so different from any other I have ever been a part of. I am very excited… stay tuned for more next week!
September 22, 2024 Leave a comment
Week 1 in Nepal!
The journey began with a bus and ended with a bus. All in all, we totaled ~22 hours of travel from JFK to KTM. Mercifully, our weariness was softened by the unexpected luxury we encountered on both of our Qatar flights- pillows, blankets, movie screens, and ample meals were all greedily consumed when offered. Still, most of us arrived at the Kathmandu airport feeling more dead than alive. There’s just no way to spend that long in transit without succumbing to the looming fatigue! My mood shifted as soon as we stepped out onto the tarmac, however, because I blinked and there they were… right before my eyes the Himalayas stood proudly, welcoming us to their homeland with an air of opulence that only the world’s grandest mountains can give off.
We were all introduced to Yanik, our new country coordinator, who was awaiting our arrival alongside his team – Krishna, Nirvana, and Laboni. They graciously took our luggage, threw it into a very cute and blessedly air-conditioned bus, and we started our hour-long commute to a hotel far up on a hillside overlooking the valley. The hotel acted as our transition space for two nights, before we were picked up by our homestay families.
The bus ride was slow but peaceful. It was mesmerizing to pass by so many houses and shops, occupied and run by people who live their lives in a place that used to exist only in my imagination. Motorcycles scittered behind and directly beside the bus like excited insects, their drivers unafraid to come within mere inches of the vehicles swirling around them. Many of the people we passed waved or nodded at the bus, which surprised me and painted a joyful expression across my face despite my fatigue. When we finally arrived at the hotel, we were provided with a Nepali-Western fusion style dinner to “ease our stomachs into Nepali food,” (Yanik is always looking out for us) and then it was off to our assigned rooms and our long-awaited beds. On the way down the path to my room, I was stopped in my tracks by the expansive view that stretched before me- off the hotel balcony, below the towering hill it was built on, the entire city of Kathmandu twinkled and shone, lit up by thousands of small, multicolored lights. The breadth of the city was astounding- I had no idea how big it would be. My friends and I sat and gazed in awe and laughed and shared our gratitude for being here with one another, and then we all fell into deep, much-needed sleeps.
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Our first morning in Nepal was marked by further excitement, marvel, and gratitude. I crept quietly out onto the terrace first thing in the morning to call my boyfriend, and I could not believe how beautiful the valley was in both darkness and light. Great green mountains stretched in a powerful ring around the city, as if guarding it. Blue-gray pigeons hopped between the rooftops and chatted on wires, the noises of morning rituals began to rise from the houses around us, and prayers were loudly being broadcast from a nearby temple. The most dramatic of the views, however, was that of Ana Purna 2 (initially I misjudged it for Everest, lol) reaching up and scraping the sky from behind a softer, green range. There was a collective moment of exclamation as we all suddenly realized that the sharp white shape behind the other mountains was not, in fact, a cloud, but an epic mountain in its own right. I sat outside and stared at the mountain as long as I could- It’s knife’s-edge sharpness and towering height captivated me, topping off the list of epic mountains that I had seen this year (the Appalachian, the Sierra Nevada, and now the Himalaya?! PLEASE!).
Eventually, Krishna came down to wish us all good morning and to enjoy the view, too. He said that this was the first time in four years that Ana Purna 2 was visible from this hotel while SIT students were there- usually, the dust and the air pollution from the city, or bad weather, veiled the mountain’s full majesty. He explained that most of the Kathmandu valley was comprised of commercialized land, which is why we saw tiny houses perched high upon most of the hills around us. The hill our hotel was located on, however, was part of a national park and was thus protected by the Nepali government. Sure enough, we saw a long line of soldiers trudging up the street with big packs and big guns later that morning, conditioning themselves and checking in on things as per army requirements.
Our day in the classroom was filled with exciting and important orientation information relayed to us by Yanik and his team, E-SIM and SIM card distribution, and a fascinating lecture on the nation’s history and governmental goals, given to us by Anil- an environmental engineer who has been a part of numerous renewable energy initiatives in Nepal over the last 3 decades. I learned that Nepal’s gov’t has been transformed many times, but always from within- It was never colonized by outside forces, meaning that much of Nepal’s ancient historical sites and it’s indigenous cultural traditions have been better preserved than those of China or India. Additionally, Nepal’s current democratic republic has placed extreme value on two things: inclusion, and resilience. The current Nepali administration has set an honorable goal to include all members of society in society- one way they’ve made strides towards this goal is by including braille numbers on their coins, making Nepal the first country in the world to do so. That said, the rights of women and children are still extremely limited, which means that all Nepalis are still not equally included in society.
After our lecture, Krishna led interested parties on an “easy” hike up to the top of the hill/mountain our hotel was located on. We began walking straight up a very steeply graded, winding road and Krishna quickly asserted his place at the front of the pack. I was amazed by how fast he moved up such brutally steep terrain, and when I told him so, he laughed and said, “When I was training for the army, I had to run up this road! Walking is much easier.” I laughed too, deeply humbled. After about 10 minutes, we were all passed by Yanik on his motorcycle with Dr. Glaser at his back. She laughed and did a queenly wave as they flew by… faculty privileges, I suppose! When we finally reached the top, the rusted tower stood proudly, beckoning us to climb its many steel rungs. The view from the tower was beautiful- a soft breeze cooled our sweaty bodies as we watched the sun sink low and paint the many different mountain ranges with color. We spoke to a man on the tower who was a 75 year-old doctor (he looked maybe 55), who told us about the virtues of daily exercise and giving up gluten. I smiled, nodded, and dreamed of momos and soba pudding. Haha!
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The remaining days flew by in a total blur of close calls with motorcycles, busy streets full of people and dogs, long but fascinating lectures, approximately 20 academic articles that demanded reading, the beginning and end of a research proposal, and lots of Dhal Bhat. We were formally introduced to Kathmandu by being thrust out into the entopic streets with our host mom, who mercifully walked us to school the first morning. I was AMAZED that we made it all the way there- and all the way back that afternoon- without witnessing multiple traffic-related fatalities. Motorcycles careened through the unbelievably narrow, winding maze of alleys in Patan, brushing by us with loud honks and mere inches to spare. Stray dogs napped in small patches of shade under parked cars, seemingly unbothered by the swarm of wheels whirring by and the cacophony of traffic noises. Faces appeared through the open storefronts along the street- men pounding metal, mannequins draped in rich magenta fabric teetering on the steps, women sorting bloody meat in butcher shops, children squinting and laughing among buckets and tables full of fruits and vegetables.
Starting the first morning that we spent in Nepal, my peers and I began receiving a host of lectures and presentations that served as a crash course in the Nepali government and it’s controversial agenda for rapid development across the nation, the economy, the nation’s history, the indigenous tribes in various regions, the prevailing realities of caste-based discrimination, and the major religions of Nepal (Buddhism, Hinduism, and many that blend in between). We had many notable presenters come into our classroom space who are involved with different facets of Nepali society- pre-law students from the Dalit community (Dalits are the community at the bottom of the caste system who have historically faced the most discrimination in Nepal, and continue to endure inhumane treatment today) who are determined to defend the rights of their friends and families, professors from local colleges, and many more.
We learned that there are 70+ political parties in Nepal, each of which fall into one or more of the following categories: Democratic, Communist, Socialist, Regressive, Identity, and/or Revolutionary. 6 parties from a variety of these categories come together to run the Nepali government under the president and prime minister (they have both!). Overall, around 60% of Nepalis support communist-based parties, but many of these parties are not truly communist in their practices. It’s very complicated and frankly I’m still fuzzy on a lot of this.
We also learned about the economic struggles and triumphs of the Nepali people. In rural areas, agriculture is the overwhelming source of income for most families- Dalits, however, face structural barriers to owning land, which means that it’s extremely hard to find work in rural areas (and in many urban ones, too). Hydroelectric power has become a huge industry in Nepal in the past few decades because of the abundant rainfall that Nepal receives during the monsoon season. Electricity is exported and sold to many of Nepal’s neighboring countries. This has been complicated by global warming and the disparate effects that climate change has had on Nepal in particular, though. Nowadays, the summers are hotter, the rainy season may be shorter or arrive later than normal, the majestic Himalayan peaks are coated with black soot and dust from the metropolitan areas in the valley, and both dust and smog smudge out the cities skies during long periods without rain. Seeing the haze in the air is very sad, and apparently the average Nepali loses three years of life simply by breathing in this air every day. In some areas of Nepal, people can lose up to five years. Climate justice is a huge issue here, and many people are fighting to make the government understand how dire the situation is- sound familiar?
We also took a class that focused on the different regionalities, traditions, and struggles that Nepal’s indigenous groups face. Many of our homestay families are from the Newar community- the indigenous community that were the original inhabitants of Kathmandu Valley. For the past week, my host mom has generously prepared lots of Newari cuisine for me to try, which has been delicious! Lots of earthy flavors from the frequent use of lentils and rice along with smoky and tangy flavors from the rainbow of spices she uses. My host sister Sonya is awesome- she is a journalist here in Patan, and she has been working for the Nepali times for eight years! She is smart as a whip and knows all about the complexities of politics, social norms, religion, and climate justice in Nepal. I love talking to her about the things I see on my walks to and from school, and about what we discuss in our lectures. When I came home one day after spending the afternoon learning about and discussing the caste system and the violence that it has created in Nepal (which is still very real- in 2020, a young boy from the Dalit community named Nabaraj BK and six of his close friends, also Dalits, were murdered and thrown into the Bheri river because Nabaraj had fallen in love with a girl from a higher caste. He and his friends were murdered while escorting Nabaraj to her house so that he could propose to her.), Sonya was able to help me process the intense emotions that I was feeling and informed me about her own experiences with caste in Nepal. Sonya made space for my sadness and allowed me to empathize with her, which helped me feel more grounded after such an intense day.
Sonya’s parents- my host parents- do not speak very much English, which has been a difficult but surprisingly rewarding experience for me. I communicate with them through excited, joyful hand gestures and eye contact much of the time, and my theatrics always seem to make them smile. One night this past week, my homestay pair Amelia and I decided that we were going to try to eat dinner the Nepali way- no utensils, just using our right hand. Dinner was rice, yellow dhal, and roasted Okra, and when our host mom saw us committedly fumbling to gather rice with our hands she shrieked with glee. She said, “Yay!! You eat with your hands!” and began clapping. In those moments, body language speaks loudly and clearly and the presence of joy is a tangible substance in the room.
On Thursday, our class split into two groups for site visits to local LGBTQ-focused NGOs. My group visited Mitini, Nepal- an NGO working for the rights and dignity of LBT women since 2005. The org was founded by a lesbian couple whose life experiences had informed them of the yawning gap in social services available to LBT women in Nepal. Since 2005, they have become deeply involved in changing and creating legislation in Nepal to protect and serve the LGBTQ+ population, and they have offered a holistic range of resources (legal aid, a community kitchen, career skills workshops, English lessons, financial literacy, etc.) to the community they serve. Mitini and other LGBTQ+ advocacy groups have made awesome strides in the fight for equality over the past few decades, such as when same-sex marriage became provisionally legalized on April 24 of THIS YEAR (!!!) but the journey has really only just begun. At this point, a vast majority of Queer Nepalese youth who come out to their families are shunned and forced out of their houses, leading to homelessness, poverty, and other violations of their basic human rights. Our speaker at Mitini told us, “Being openly Queer in Nepal is about the most difficult thing you can be, especially at intersections of caste, gender, and ability.” Our group ended up speaking with the Mitini team for almost four hours over butter tea and biscuits, asking questions and sharing our various American perspectives. Before we left, they gave us handfuls of small stickers with their logo cast upon a progress pride flag, which have found themselves all over Kathmandu and Patan since. <3
During our blessed and restful day off on Saturday, myself and a few others decided to embark on a journey to Swoyambhu Mahachaitya- the most important Buddhist temple in Nepal, also known colloquially and by tourists as “the monkey temple”. They were free-range and all over the place!
The temple atmosphere was incredible. Stray dogs, monkeys, pigeons, and crows made up a fascinatingly unexpected ecosystem all around us as we wandered through the ancient statues of Buddhist idols and along rows of mani wheels inscribed with names and Buddhist mantras. Countless layers of criss-crossing Lungta flags fluttered above us between trees and from the pinnacles of buildings, creating a colorful patchwork sky. While the monkeys and the statues and the sounds of Buddhist prayer rituals were fascinating, my favorite part about being there was learning about the significance of the Lotus flower in Buddhism. Most statues and images of Buddha feature him sitting on a Lotus throne- a sign that he has achieved true enlightenment and has let go of all his material and vain human attachments. The lotus acts as a reminder of the discrepancy between function and form- we should appreciate the flower for it’s function (as a pollinator, as an indicator of health and growth) rather than it’s form, because eventually the flower will die and give way to a new phase of life for the Lotus plant. One of our lecturers explained it like this- If he were to buy a fancy watch to tell him the time, when he inevitably loses or breaks the watch he will be very sad. But if he values watches based on their function rather than their form, he will be able to replace any watch he breaks or loses without grief- he will only feel gratitude for being able to restore his sense of time.
This was such a striking idea to me, and it caused me to reflect deeply on my own insecurities and on the things that I place external value on. Every day I stand in front of the mirror and put on makeup to cover up my blemishes and the dark shadows under my eyes, so that I look as close to “perfect” as I can. I do this even when I am exhausted, when I am running late, when I am overwhelmed and when I don’t feel like doing it. By behaving this way, I am placing more value on the “form” of my skin, of my face and body, than on it’s function- to protect my insides from the elements, to allow me to see, hear, smell, speak, and create facial expressions to communicate to others. To cry, to feel the breeze, to taste delicious foods and to think deep thoughts. Buddhism is profound and I feel so lucky to be in a country where it surrounds me every day- where idols and mantras watch over me as I walk through the insane traffic patterns on my way to school and in the prayers of my host mom that I hear through the walls each morning and night. Oh Nepal! You are so many things and people all at once!
September 15, 2024 Leave a comment
A Week in the Big City
Ellie and I stood side-by-side on the outer edge of a basketball court in at the Moore Homestead Playground- a sprawling mass of children running, adults chatting on shade-covered benches, and now, a huge spiral of men and women (some dressed casually, some sporting traditional Nepali or Tibetan garb) dancing the Gorshey. Our program director took us all to this park to experience what community organizing felt like, and the power of the synchronized, graceful movements of all the individuals before us, dancing to keep their customs alive thousands of miles from their homeland, came over me in waves. It was so beautifully rhythmic that Ellie and I did not want to step in and ruin their mojo. But alas, we were here to give the Gorshey a good ol’ college try, and despite accidentally slapping many of the more coordinated dancers, the community welcomed us with smiles and nods of appreciation as we began awkwardly goose-stepping beside them. Soon enough, it was magic. We went around in circle after circle, and just as soon as we were beginning to get the hang of one dance, the DJ would start another and we would start our choreography journey from scratch again. There were more than 20 different songs played that evening, and the people around us had the different dances for every single one memorized. It was awesome to watch our dancing neighbors effortlessly show off their seemingly endless repertoire.
Before we knew it, 2 hours had passed, and two of our program coordinator Yeshe’s nephews – Pema and Lordy- presented us all with Khatas- simple scarves that are traditionally gifted in Tibet and Nepal to signify the return, departure, accomplishments, marraiges, birthdays, etc. of friends and family. Then myself and a few others danced a little more, and when it finally came time to leave Yeshe and her nephews ushered our small group close. “Do you guys want to go out to a Nepali bar later?” Lordy asked. The answer was an excited and resounding YES, especially after we heard that we could get discounted drinks and legal age would not be examined with enough attention to prevent fun. So we excitedly headed for the metro to go back and get ready for a late night in the city, but not before we passed by a restaurant where even more of Yeshe’s family was gathered for a thank-you-dinner in the wake of her cousin’s recent wedding. Initially, our group was going to part with Yeshe to enjoy her family dinner and then reunite with her at the club later in the evening, but almost as soon as Yeshe walked into the restaurant she was sent back out by her mom to invite us inside. We couldn’t believe what was happening! We were ushered in with smiles and nods and immediately instructed to fill up plates with heavenly-smelling Nepali food. Plastic cups filled with rice wine appeared out of nowhere, and soon enough we were smiling, laughing, and eating alongside Yeshe’s extended family. It was magic. They were very impressed that we had attempted the Gorshey, and we excitedly informed them that we would be leaving for Nepal in a mere week!
After some socializing we finally made it back to our hotel, where we got ready to party Nepali-style. Those who were down for the adventure gathered on the hotel roof deck for beverages and drinking games such as “Cheers to the Governor” (our Russian student advised that we call it “Cheers to Kamala” instead, which we happily did.) When it came time to boogy, we hit the subway once more and arrived at Uptop, the Nepali bar in question. The techno-latin-afro-bollywood-early-2000s-music pounded in the neon-lit space, and our collective energy soared. We danced, and danced, and danced. Then we drank, and danced, and drank whilst dancing- all under the watchful and supremely cool-mom eye of Yeshe. We met the regulars and some of Yeshe’s friends, all of whom gave us wise advice about what to expect in Nepal (my favorite insight was “Come back to Uptop every night between now and when you leave so that you are culturally prepared for Nepal…”). As the night pounded on with the bass in our ears, time began to feel less and less real… that is, until the club closed. Yep, it was 5 am and we were still passing around bottles on the dance floor with Yeshe… time to go home. My lovely friend Amaya ensured that I ate and drank something before bed, and the next morning I woke up at noon to one of the worst hangovers of my life. But 12 hours of pain and misery were totally worth it for one of the best nights of my life, and by 5:30 pm I was starting to feel human again… small potatoes.
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Tuesday was *full* of movement. I wish that I could say that I’d gotten used to our packed days, often beginning at 9 am and concluding around 5 or 6- but I had not. I was TIRED by the time we plodded through Astoria in the early afternoon- I felt like we’d already done so much commuting, so much critical thinking, and had received so much information. We began our day’s activities with a bus ride into Astoria to meet with New York State assembly member Steven Raga, who oversees the 30th district (which encompasses many of the neighborhoods that my cohort and I had come to know and love during our time in NYC). When we arrived at the drab building, we were ushered into a conference room where 20 chairs had been set up around an immense wooden table. I quickly sat down and eagerly awaited Mr. Raga’s arrival.
We spoke with Mr. Raga about his job, the challenges he faces with the internal structure of the New York State government and with the U.S federal government, his wellbeing, and the work he has tried and is trying to do for his constituents. Our conversation was humbling, somewhat somber, and clearly indicative of the fact that I know frighteningly little about how the different levels of our government actually work. I fought a feeling of deep unsettlement when we finally walked out the office’s double-doors. Mr. Raga was exhausted. When asked, he told us that he “absolutely believes” that he sacrifices his own human rights for the sake of his job, that he does not have the time to emotionally process the moments when his duty as a politician conflicts with the will of his heart, and that he and his team essentially work around the clock but do not feel as though they are ever doing enough. This was not the conversation I expected- I was grateful to Mr. Raga for being real with us, but it was scary to think about someone occupying a position that seems so empowering and positive from the outside, while the reality is more like constant exhaustion, self-sacrifice, and the struggle to fight feelings of deeply rooted anxiety that change is not happening fast enough or in the right ways.
Being in Mr. Raga’s office and having the privilege of listening to him provided one half of the fascinating dichotomy of information about community organizing that we recieved on Tuesday. Our next stop was the Malikah Safety Center- a grassroots nonprofit located in the heart of Astoria’s “Little Egypt”- that focuses on empowering Muslim women and recently arrived asylum seekers with resources and support for self protection, healing justice, community, and financial literacy.
Our conversation with Rana (Malikah’s incredible founder) and her colleagues took on a drastically different tone than our earlier talk with Mr. Raga. These women occupied a role in a completely different context than Mr. Raga, even though their office was located only a few short blocks away from his and many of the two group’s goals reflected one another. The main difference was this: Mr. Raga works within and for the state and federal government, and Malikah utilizes government funds to run a nonprofit, non-governmental organization that works alongside and supplements the work of the state and federal government. As such, the women we spoke to at Malikah radiated much more confidence, joy, and calm than Mr. Raga and his staff did. The women at Malikah used words like “serve” and “provide” to describe their work, while Mr. Raga used words like “represent” and “engage”.
It was so important for me to see both sides of this coin, for the sake of better understanding, respecting, having empathy for, and interacting with elected officials and with nonprofits doing important community work. Our professor and program director Dr. Azim Khan explained the difference like this: NGOs are like rabbits. They move fast and they are able to create localized change very quickly. The government, on the other hand, is like an elephant. It often moves very slowly, but each step it takes creates a much larger footprint of change than a rabbit’s does. I love Dr. Khan!
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The rest of Tuesday went by slowly and blurrily- I was SO TIRED! After visiting Malikah we went to an incredible Middle Eastern/West Asian dessert shop and sampled lots of incredible sweets, and then myself and a few others went for Mediterranean down the street. I ordered a chicken Kofta kebab and had my mind blown by how delicious it was, and then we finally hit the metro to head back home.
Our interactions with NGOs and prominent community organizers were far from over, however. Wednesday arrived and brought with it 2 more presentations. First we met with Adikhaar, another community grassroots org that focuses on serving the Nepali-speaking population of Queens. They provide adult English classes, support for job searches, legal advocacy for the rights of domestic workers, a Nepali youth organization, etc. etc. The founder, ____, is a particularly inspring woman who immigrated to the U.S from Nepal decades ago, worked as a nail tech for 17 years, and during that time, suffered 7 miscarriages. Her experience made her aware of the gap of supportive resources that are available to Nepali-speaking people in NYC, and so she began to organize with her community and eventually formed Adhikaar. She and her team are deeply involved in creating local legislation to protect Neplali-speakers’ right to language justice, and to protect Asian nail techs from experiencing reproductive issues as a result of exposure to the harmful chemicals and bacteria they encounter at work. __ and her team provide nail techs with health and safety classes to help educate them on strategies they can use to protect themselves if they work in buildings with poor ventilation. ___ and her team spoke to us about Adhikaar’s legal involvement and the struggles they have faced while trying to advocate for themselves and their community members.
The second presentation we received that day was from Arielle Rawlings. Arielle spoke to us about the work that her employer, the Affordable Neighborhood Cooperative Program, does, and about housing inequality in NYC. Cooperative housing is a system whereby each resident in an apartment building or townhouse gets to buy and retain ownership of their unit at a price that’s way below the market average. In exchange, each resident then agrees to contribute a monthly sum (the amount is decided by the building’s residents) to the building’s overall maintenance, and they also agree to cooperate with the other residents in the collective decision-making process about building affairs. Arielle explained what the benefits of cooperative housing are (avoids renter vulnerability, guarantees that resident’s monthly payments will be stable over time, promotes long-term affordability of units in the building, provides residents with the opportunity to build home equity, and prioritizes democratic control of the building- residents are not subject to the whims of landlords), as well as the history of NYC’s widely-known cooperative housing system, and how she and her teammates work to keep cooperative housing alive in a city where the cost of living rises while basic needs remain unmet for so many. It was a fascinating talk, and it was cool to hear about such a “seize the means of production”, community-oriented strategy for providing families in need with housing they can afford.
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Eventually it came time for us to sit down with Yeshe, Tashi, and Dr. Khan at a DELICIOUS Thai restaurant (shoutout to the Spicy Shallot in Jackson Heights!) to reflect upon the past 10 days and bid our coordinators farewell. We passed around plate after plate of sushi, Pad Thai, fried rice, Red Snapper, Massaman curry, and spring rolls, and we laughed and talked gratefully about all the places we had been, the people we’d visited, and the knowledge we’d all gained side by side. It was a sweet gathering- the mood stayed light and jittery despite the hard goodbyes that were rapidly approaching. I could NOT BELIEVE that in just a few short hours I’d be waking up to get on a plane to QATAR. And then on another to KATHMANDU! What?!? So cool!!!
As I write this on a massive airplane hurtling over the American Northeast, I feel like I already know so much more about the world around me and my dynamic place in it than I did 10 days ago. Learning through such an experiential, community-focused pedagogy during our time in the big city has deepened my understanding of my identity as a White, American Woman and of the weight- of the privilege- that my identity carries both within and beyond U.S borders. I have learned lots about human connection, too… The friendships I have cultivated with the incredible women (and Daniel lol) around me grow stronger every day, and I can’t wait to start exploring Nepal with them. Until then, Namaste!
September 8, 2024 Leave a comment
Days 1-3: Arrival and Everything Immediately After
As my head lulled along to train 86’s slow, lumbering tilts and groans this morning, I had no concept of the pure magic that was waiting for me in a hotel basement in the middle of Queens. I was excited for our program launch, but if I’d had any inkling of the electrifying feminine magic that was going to seize my heart and mind as my fellow students began trickling in that afternoon, I would have been singing and dancing in the train aisle.
Face after beautiful face began to appear and pass through the basement doors, and as more amazing young women showed up I started to realize just how powerful it is to feel joy in numbers. It’s something that takes over your whole body- something that is irrefutable and unstoppable and absolutely wonderful. You float on the beaming faces of those around you, and the word “stranger” loses all meaning. All of us had worked so hard to get here- to flash toothy smiles at each other in a hotel basement- and I could tell that we all felt ready. Ready to grow, ready to laugh, ready to run around the world and learn about what’s messed up and how to understand and fix it. There were no tears, no shaky voices, no solemn silences as we thought about the goodbyes we’d just squeezed through all of our lips. We had arrived! And it was time.
It also struck me that every single female body that walked into that room has the power of knowledge, empirical evidence, and education on our side. America is, without a shadow of a doubt, an unequal society. But as the evening pressed on I found myself basking in the beauty of being in the presence of so many passionate, smart, driven women my age- Black, white, Jewish, Middle-Eastern, etc. It’s beautiful that we all ended up in the same basement with such different, valuable life experiences.
After orientation, we walked 2 blocks to a Mexican-American fusion restaurant and talked and ate and laughed until our heads hurt. There is hard work ahead of us, and we will see and experience incredibly uncomfortable things in the coming months. But I am empowered by the fact that we will do it together, for the sake of becoming better people
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Yeshi Sherpa stood beaming, a twinkle in her eyes, as she asked us to make our way down the sloped basement ramp and then take off our shoes before we entered the classroom space. As soon as I poked my head inside, I felt like I had been swallowed by an orange. Citrus colored paint blazed across the four walls of the tiny room, accentuating the bright red, blue, green, and yellow tapestries that hung from the walls. A row of portraits- distinguished *sherpa??* monks associated with the learning space- observed us carefully from the far side of the room. Dr. Azim welcomed us, and we all found a seat at the fold-out tables that had been thoughtfully set up, eager to start the day but even more eager to bust into the free donuts and coffee that had been provided for us.
The morning was a blur of incoming information- rules, expectations, policies, the history of the program, and a go-around-and-share-your-fears appraisal. It was during this discussion about anxieties and nerves that our program director- a well-traveled and well-respected man who grew up in India- explained to us that fears about cultural appropriation are largely an American phenomena. This was a very surprising insight for me. A few of the other gals and I had already spoken amongst each other about our confusion towards whether or not it would be respectful for us to wear head coverings in Jordan. I was adamant that if an American tourist is not practicing Islam, it would not be seen as respectful to wear a headscarf day-to-day. Dr. Azim, however, explained to us that our host families and the locals we will interact with while abroad will likely be overjoyed to see us embracing their traditions and customs, and to them, our participation will come as a sign of mutual cultural acceptance.
After our information session, we walked around the Jackson Ward neighborhood of NYC, where we were led into a Tibetan meditation space by Yeshe. The building appeared out of nowhere on the crowded New York block where it stood, and it was stunning- vibrant patterns, carvings, tapestries, and paintings lined the mouth of the large double doors and covered every inch of the interior walls and ceiling; and strong, robust pillars stood guard over the meditation floor. Yeshe explained that this space was new- it had only been transformed into a meditation space in the past decade- and that it’s renovation was thanks to the huge, recent influx of Tibetan, Nepali, and Himalayan immigrants that have moved into the neighborhood. After we departed, my new friends and I sat down for a delicious Tibetan feast (4 orders of Momos) at a Jackson Ward Restaurant, and basked in the beauty of our collective excitement and intrigue.
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The following day’s highlights were as follows: A 3 mile walk with my new friend Peace to our classroom space (for the sake of movement, geographical orientation, and also just for fun), a fascinating intercultural competence session with my classmates (in which we analyzed our identities, positionalities, stereotypes, and understandings of how we, ourselves, and others are received differently in different cultural contexts), another delicious lunch in Jackson Ward (I had Thali for the first time and had to google how it eat it lol), followed by a brief plunge into the subway to hurtle towards the UN building for a 3:30 tour. We all had lots of intense thoughts and feelings as we walked through the building that was supposed to model and ensure global peace and human rights, because in our hearts we felt the weight of hundreds of thousands of Palestinian, Sudanese, and Ukrainian lives so recently lost. We debriefed in the UN courtyard, speaking about all the complexities, inefficiencies, and goals of the UN, and then a few friends and I went for ramen.
The most striking discussion that we had that day was about power. Dr. Azim asked all of us, “Dig deep and ask yourselves, why do I need power? Why do I need to be perceived as powerful to create change, when- as we have seen at the UN, in local and global politics, etc.- power creates so many harmful imbalances? So many violations of human rights?”. I was dumbstruck when I heard this. Why does some part of me need to be perceived as a powerful, American woman to feel as though I have a place in the world? Why am I discontented with just being an American woman- with my voice in total and equal standing with all other women all over the globe? It’s an ugly underbelly of activism- the human need to stand out, to be different, to be seen and heard as one voice championing many- and it’s something I plan to interrogate within myself with as much integrity as I can over the coming weeks.
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August 31, 2024 Leave a comment
About Me & SIT Human Rights
Ahem… Hi!
My name is Sammy Cake. My pronouns are she/they, I am a rising junior at Longwood University (in the lovely town of Farmville, Virginia), and I am a Sociology major with a double-minor in Women’s, Sexuality, and Gender Studies and Race and Ethnic Studies.
I grew up in an upper-middle class suburb just outside of Richmond, Virginia with one brother and two step-siblings (a sister and a brother) on a street where my divorced parents happily reside two houses apart from one another. I’m white, I’m cis, I’m queer, I’ve thru-hiked the Appalachian and Long Trails, and every day I try to make a little bit of progress towards my ultimate goal of becoming an active anti-racist change agent in my community.
This coming semester (the fall of 2024) I will have the privilege of participating in a comparative study abroad program with the School for International Training. This program focuses on human rights, and it aims to help students develop a deep, multilayered understanding of how communities and individuals are giving momentum to grassroots human rights movements across the countries of Nepal, Jordan, Chile, and America. Along with my peers, I will compare and contrast cross-cultural systems of government, social distributions of power, social divisions of labor, social hierarchies, the role and presence of welfare states, political freedom and oppression, definitions of human rights, and the emergence, progression, and goals of social movements.
So, why this program? Why choose to embark on this kind of social, physical, spiritual, and emotional journey? I think it’s really, really important for me to do this. Like, as important as it was for me to set out alone at 18 to walk 2,200 miles from Georgia to Maine. Unlike my trek on the A.T, however, this program is about far more than personal ambition. In many ways, I view my participation in this opportunity as my first big step towards the rest of my life- after all, how can I possibly aspire to make the world more equal and just if I do not have a comprehensive understanding of the ongoing struggles for equality and justice that surround me on all sides, locally and globally?
I believe strongly that nothing on this planet happens within a vacuum, especially when it comes to protest, prejudice, and policy (and history has proven that to be true, time and time again). It’s important for me, as a born-with-a-silver-spoon-raised-in-a-liberal-echo-chamber-crunchy-granola-queer-feminist-American-college-student-with-big-dreams kind of gal to participate in this program so that I know how to listen to the voices of those whose lives are very different from my own, so that I know how to incorporate those voices into my current and future activism, and so that I can do more to change America to value humanity in all it’s forms.
If you’re interested in following my journey, this blog is where I’ll detail and reflect on my experiences, thoughts, questions, and ideas regarding human rights, social justice, power, and privilege as they arise during my time abroad. Please feel free to reach out if you have any feedback on the content I create- I am always open to having a discussion. Thanks for your time!
Here’s my Instagram handle for more pictures and updates: @a.sociologist.abroad
Here’s where you can learn more about the Appalachian Trail and long-distance hiking in America! : https://appalachiantrail.org/explore/hike-the-a-t/
May 17, 2024 Leave a comment